final technique for keeping people
The final technique for keeping people dependent on you is to let them believe they are in control. By giving them small victories or the illusion that they have some autonomy you can maintain a hold on them without making it obvious. People are more likely to remain dependent if they believe they are acting of their own free will.
A good example of this comes from the political arena, where governments often give citizens small freedoms while controlling the larger picture. By offering these small liberties the government maintains the people’s loyalty while ensuring they don’t stray too far.
In relationships whether personal or professional, allowing others to make choices within limits can keep them tied to you. They feel empowered yet still look to you for approval or guidance in significant matters. This illusion of control keeps dependency alive as they continue to seek your input while believing they have autonomy.