relationships whether romantic or platonic
In personal relationships whether romantic or platonic playing hard to get can often make you more desirable. When you make yourself too available you may appear less valuable leading others to take you for granted. However if you create a little distance you can increase the other person’s desire to be close to you.
Consider the case of someone you admire. If this person is always available to hang out it can reduce the sense of excitement when you actually spend time with them. On the other hand if they are selective with their time and interactions you might feel more eager to spend time with them when the opportunity arises.
A classic example is the relationship between Scarlett O’Hara and Rhett Butler in *Gone with the Wind*. Scarlett’s unpredictable nature keeps Rhett coming back to her intrigued by her character. She doesn’t chase after Rhett; rather he is the one consistently drawn to her, captivated by her charm and elusive behavior.
This doesn’t mean you should ignore people or play games but by being strategic with your time and attention you can create a stronger pull making others value your presence more.